Curiosity Over Control: How Jesus Transforms Conversations – 7/6/25

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Scripture Reference:
Philippians, Philippians 2:3-4

Teacher:
Antone Goyak

AI Output:

Okay, here’s a summary of the main points and action/application points presented in the sermon:

Main Points:

  • Wisdomfest Focus: The series is exploring how to have wiser relationships, starting with trusting in God and demonstrating humility.
  • Awkward Conversations are Common: Many people avoid difficult conversations because they feel messy or uncomfortable.
  • The Goal: Gospel-Centered Outcomes: The desire is to have conversations that lead to greater unity, peace, and redemption.
  • Control vs. Curiosity: The sermon argues that shifting from a “control” mindset (directing, seeking outcomes) to a “curiosity” mindset (discovering, connecting) is crucial.
  • Humility and Jesus: It is emphasized that true change requires relying on Jesus rather than our own efforts.

Action/Application Points:

  • Identify Conversations to Avoid: Reflect on conversations you’re avoiding and why.
  • OIC (Observe, Interpret, Clarify): Use this tool for navigating conflict by initially observing without emotion, then offering your interpretation, and finally asking clarifying questions to understand the other person’s perspective.
  • Hospitality: Extend hospitality in all interactions, creating a welcoming space to connect others
  • Navigate Awkward Moments: Show up with grace, be comfortable in silence, and consider offering short prayer as a way to get through difficult portions of conversations.
  • Engage Across Differences: Ask thoughtful, curious questions that acknowledge the other person’s perspective. Remember to avoid communicating electronically during discussions where differences arise.
  • Lean into Jesus: Instead of simply aiming to be “more patient” or “humble,” pray specifically for the Holy Spirit’s help – asking God to fill you and guide your interactions.