Fear, Faith, and Social Skills – 6/22/25

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Scripture Reference:
Jeremiah, Jeremiah 17:5-8

Teacher:
Peter Hubbard

AI Output:

Here’s a summary of the main points and action/application points presented in the sermon:

Main Points:

  • Prufrock as a Model of Anxiety: The sermon starts referencing T.S. Eliot’s “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” to illustrate the modern struggle with social anxieties, loneliness, and self-doubt.
  • The Gospel & Social Skills: Improving social skills is inseparable from the gospel, as Jesus calls us to build community and form a new people (the church).
  • Jeremiah’s Struggle: The prophet Jeremiah wrestled with social and linguistic inadequacy, facing rejection and feeling alienated. He was called to fearlessly proclaim his word during tumultuous times.
  • Trusting in Man vs. Trusting God: The sermon highlights Jeremiah 17, contrasting the pitfalls of trusting in people (leading to a stunted and lonely existence) with the blessings that come from placing trust in God, likened to a tree planted by water.
  • Anxiety & Safety Strategies: The sermon identifies anxiety as a contagious force, pointing out how we often use “safety-seeking behaviors” (like scripted conversations or anger) to avoid uncomfortable social situations.
  • The Power of Vulnerability: True confidence and relational growth come through confronting fears, acknowledging weakness, and transferring trust from people to God.

Action/Application Points:

  • Shift from Technique to Trust and Love: Develop relational skills based on gospel values, understanding Jesus’ love as the foundation.
  • Address Safety Strategies: Be aware of and actively challenge our patterns that allow us to avoid social discomfort.
  • Replace with Godly Responses: Turn to God for help when facing anxious or difficult social situations, replacing avoidance with reliance on Him.
  • Practice Vulnerability: Confront fears and acknowledge weaknesses, openly transferring trust towards God rather than relying on people’s opinions.
  • Prayer Focus: This week, prayerfully consider how to apply these principles in daily interactions to grow trust in God and love others.